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Location: Monrovia, CA 91016 USA |
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Education: MA, MFT from Pepperdine in 1975
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Philosophy: In nearly six decades of daily life in Southern California and adventure, training, and speaking engagements on four continents, I have grown into the realization that the full experience of life in the moment is generally the most productive, healthy, and fulfilling way to spend my time on this planet. I have learned to choose being fully alive in the present whether in the breathtaking exhilaration of a trek to 17,000 feet in Peru or the quiet intimacy of a therapy session, in telling stories to grandchildren or feeling an earthquake shaking our house and toppling our chimney, in losing a best friend or gaining a life partner, and in the wedding of a daughter or a Physician’s declaration that “she probably won’t make it.” Life can be an incredibly joyous and painful journey. A life well lived deals with everything our time has to offer with honesty and grace, love and fear, courage and tears, confidence and acceptance, always taking one purposeful step at a time.
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Practice: A fulfilling journey in the counseling and psychotherapy process begins with a safe, caring relationship between my client and myself. My first task as a therapist is creating a secure environment that encourages and develops hope, respect, introspection, honesty, and self-responsibility in the therapy room. In this context, each client may begin to contact his/her own inner wisdom that knows what is in his/her highest good. I believe that the “real therapist” in the room is the client’s “higher self.” Therefore, my second responsibility is to help develop my client’s relationship with this inner wisdom ,not to be the source of his/her wisdom.
Within this safe, creative environment and with my client’s ever developing relationship with his/her inner self, the course of therapy takes as many forms as the 1,000s of clients I have had the honor to work. Length of treatment varies from a few sessions to years of deep exploration and growth. Some individuals and families have had three or four series of sessions with me focused around different concern that reflect different developmental stages of life. In fact I have clients that I see today that I first met when they were children in family therapy that returned a decade later for premarital counseling and then came back again more than two decades later as parents with their own “relating to teenager” issues.
I value creativity and flexibility in the therapeutic process , including the use of techniques as diverse as goal setting and dream work, sensitivity and humor, science and metaphor, compassionate listening and straightforward honesty, cognitive understanding and intuitive knowing, behavioral change and exploring the meaning of life; all within an atmosphere of beauty and genuineness. |
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Additional information: I have found great joy in training dozens of successful therapists and am currently suppervising eleven.
Please see my webpage and two websites at: www.LIFECounselingGroup.org and www.ThePlaceWithin.org |
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Area of Specialization: . 3-10 . Adolesecents . Adults . Seniors .. Family Therapy .. Individual Therapy ..Marriage Counseling Affairs & Infidelity Anger Management Anxiety and Panic Blended Families Chronic Illness Death, Dying & Loss Depression Diversity Issues Domestic Violence Financial Issues Parenting PTSD Relationship Problems Sleep Disorders Spirituality Trauma
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Setting: I have a private practice in a group setting: LIFE Counseling Group. |
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Payment types accepted: insurance, cash
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CA License# MFC 7718
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Experience: 35 yrs. general counseling 35 yrs. marriage counseling |
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